Remind yourself that everything - from the smallest irritation to the biggest losses - are from Hashem and "exactly what I need at this moment to remind me to connect to Him." No one can do this for us. It requires diligent training. But then, the word "emunah" - faith - comes from the word "ee-mun" - training. The root also contains the word "o-man," artisan. So each time we practice, we are creating something of enormous significance and beauty - a relationship with Hashem.